#ProjectPositive

Hiya!

Happy May lovelies, hope you're all well. I have just uploaded a video on my YouTube channel where I discuss a new little movement I want to do this month.

#ProjectPositive is a way in which I will document a positive thing from each day on my Twitter and Tumblr, with the aim to better my outlook on life. I was always known as the 'positive' person in a group; continuously looking at the good things in every situation possible. Over the last few years, my mental health (I struggle with depression, anxiety and an eating disorder) has deteriorated and I find myself in a constant state of self-hate and self-destruction, with many negative thoughts about myself, the world and how people see me. Therefore, I'm creating this challenge to benefit anyone that wants to get involved.

I hope you can join in with me and focus on the good parts of the day, no matter how small it may be!

Love and Hugs,

Hana!

Take CARE and spread the WORD! (thank you!)

My YouTube Channel:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm7amez4U_eVJxBbDDJlBKQ

Update (Hello 2015)

I haven't been on here for months, so HELLO! :)

I don't have a particular aim or plan of what I want to write but I do know that something inspired me to write a little today. As I am currently reading a book on feminism, I realised a lot of things I feel, have felt and will undoubtedly feel, are definitely not natural. This ranges from being scared of walking alone in the street, even if it is light outside, to feeling the need that I need to be small, or the annoying feeling I get when I know that my sister and I will never be as "free" as possible.

Now, I respect "boundaries" and have certain things that I wouldn't be willing to do...this is not necessarily related to my gender...but simply because I wouldn't be comfortable doing it. I am in no means against males, I have a brother, father, grandad, uncles, have had respectable male teachers, and so on, therefore I appreciate that "Not All Men" is an honest phrase. However, this does not eliminate the sexism that generally DOES take place - ranging from actions that take place at schools, work, public, or even in people's mindset.

"You're a boy, you can't become a designer."

"Come on, be serious Ellie, you don't really think you can be an astronaut, do you?"

"Aw, you're a little girl, why would you cut your hair?"

"Mikey, put your sister's doll down."

I understand that our biological differences make us more suitable to certain roles, but let's not forbid the future generation from certain things, simple based on their gender. Teach little girls that they can be energetic and play outside. Don't deprive boys from things like arts and crafts. Let kids be kids, without the gender stereotypes. Maybe then, the next generation will grow up respecting each other, despite biological/gender differences, and treating one another equally...which is what feminism is about. EQUALITY.

Quote Of The Week ♥

"What if I told you 10 years from now your life would be exactly the same?
Doubt you'd be happy.
So, why are you afraid of change?"

- Karen Salmansohn.

Hiyaa lovelies, so here's a quick little post that will hopefully have a bit of positivity haha.

I came across this quote earlier and thought it needed to be shared! It's a good reminder that if something's holding you back, or you want to make a new move, with whatever, and you're too worried about it, thinking about it in the long run can help. Picture your future self and think about what they'd be thankful for. Or maybe even think of your past self. Either way, sometimes stepping back or forwards from your present self can help see the bigger picture.

Goal: Change something you've wanted to change for a while now, no matter how big or small.

Good luck and take care ♥

Tewkesbury ♥

Hiya everyone. Hope your week was good and that your weekend's lovely.
Today we went to Tewkesbury and it was just so pretty ♥
Everything seemed so vintage and shabby chic! It was full of cute cafés, charity shops and little lanes. You can also sit by the river and walk along the bridges. It's definitely a delightful place to visit and would highly recommend it to anyone who's looking for a relaxing day out.
Take care,
Hana x

Hello June x

Hiya guys...hope your weekend is going well! Here's a quick post welcoming June via Demi Lovato's book Staying Strong: 365 Days A Year.
I know we're half way through the year but I would recommend it to anyone, of any age. So here you go. A page for you guys!
Take care,
Hana
x

Quickie x

A quick little quote that I saw earlier and loved. Quite eye opening. Hope your week is going well..
Take care,
Hana x
P.S. I've been busy packing this week, and the upcoming weeks I'll be busy settling in. But after then I hope to upload more often.

Insecurities

Hiya lovelies,

This post is going to be quite similar to one I wrote previously. I came across a few more poems that I wrote a while back. I tend to write poetry when I feel I want to express something but don't know how to. It sort of helps putting the words on paper and I end up feeling better and often satisfied. My style of writing is quite simple and I know there are so many better writers out there. However, here it is:

"Her eyes sparkled,
They were often full of love.
When she smiled,
She radiated a special kind of light.
It was rare though,
Not because she was miserable,
Nor was she ungrateful.
But she was insecure.
It wasn't for attention,
It wasn't planned or rehearsed.
People would compliment her,
Every now and then,
But she didn't believe them.
She wasn't trying to be awkward,
But she just didn't feel it.
But you know what?
She truly, purely is beautiful."

I think the poem itself is pretty clear! So many of us are so insecure about different features we have. Dealing with insecurities is hard and if I'm completely honest, I still deal with them in a really negative way. I'm not here to try and act like I know what I'm doing. Nor am I going to try and tell you what to do. However, I can try to help :)

Every single person out there deals with some sort of insecurity. Even if they appear confident, chances are - they actually aren't. As humans we pick out our flaws and focus on them. We rarely ever focus on the things we like about ourselves. But if we really think about it...why does our appearance matter so much? You don't need to be society's version of pretty to enjoy things like cycling, travelling and painting. We focus so much on bettering our external appearance, that we forget that what's inside is what truly matters.

I know we've all heard this lots of times, so its meaning is probably losing its value. But, really, people aren't going to hang around you for what you look like. It's hard to believe and remember that. And as I've previously said, I feel like I shouldn't say it as it seems hypocritical...but I do genuinely believe it. It's so difficult to try and see past society's definition of beauty and see that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Therefore, to conclude my little post, I challenge you to name 5 things you like about yourself. They can be physical features or anything else that you admire about yourself.

I hope this was a bit of an eye opener and that it helped anyone who read it.

Lots of love and take care,

Hana.

Quote of the Day ♥

Lately I've felt like a burden among those around me, including myself. I feel like I have to make conflicting decisions when, to be honest, all I want to do is sleep for days on end. However, yesterday I came across a quote that I think anyone could benefit from.

"If other people do not understand our behaviour - so what? Their request that we must only do what they understand is an attempt to dictate to us. If this is being "asocial" or "irrational" in their eyes, so be it. Mostly they resent our freedom and our courage to be ourselves. We owe nobody an explanation or an accounting, as long as our acts do not hurt or infringe on them. How many lives have been ruined by this need to "explain," which usually implies that the explanation be "understood," I.e. approved. Let your deeds be judged, and from your deeds, your real intentions, but know that a free person owes an explanation only to himself - to his reason and his conscience - and to the few who may have a justified claim for explanation."

- Erich Fromm,  The Art Of Being.

This quote could help anyone with almost anything. Whether you're dealing with a mental illness and want to recover, whether you want to do something you love that not everyone approves of. Maybe you simply want to stay at home rather than going out on the weekend. Whatever it is, no matter if it's big or small, you should be able to do it without feeling scared, guilty or unworthy. You don't need to justify your choices to others. As long as you feel comfortable doing it, then that's all that matters. Anyone who wants to bring you down isn't even worth an explanation. They aren't worth the stress and worry. Because at the end of the day, your life should be based on YOU. Not what others might think of it, neither what they might think of you. As long as your intentions are pure and you believe that what you're doing is what's best for you, that's all that really matters.

With love,

Hana ♥

Study Techniques

So, as many people will be sitting exams soon, I thought I'd post ways to help prepare for exams along with studying tips!

First of all, the first step will be to sort out your subjects and make sure that you go over the syllabus. Next I suggest you sort out a timetable, making sure you study for every subject. If you're short for time, focus on the harder subjects first. Although many of us try to avoid these, you're going to end up doing it sooner or later so it's much better and relaxing getting it done with as soon as possible :) Make sure you cover all topics and understand everything you need to.

Now for the study methods:
1) Make notes/highlight the main points. I find this to be very beneficial as it makes you more aware of the important bits.
2) Use diagrams. If you learn better using tables, graphs and charts, then try to use those where you can.
3) Flashcards. Although this sounds quite childish, it really helps when learning definitions. Write the word on one side and its meaning on the back...this helps you test yourself.
4) Explain to someone. I find that explaining what you know to someone helps you understand it better and remember it :)
5) Study groups. These vary depending on what type of person you are. Some people revise much better when they're with others. However, some revise better alone.
6) Test yourself. Use the internet to find ready made quizzes or tests.
7) Watch tutorials. Some YouTube channels post educational videos which can be very helpful.

I hope this helped you find a study method that suits you ♥ I understand that everyone has different techniques that work for them so don't be upset if some don't work for you - just try to find one that does! Don't stress out too much and make sure you give yourself free time too.

Good luck and take care,

Hana x

'Princess Warrior' ♥

Today I thought I'd share a poem I wrote a little while back. I used to really enjoy writing poetry, but within the past year I barely have due to the fact that I don't often feel it's good enough. However, this is a piece I don't mind sharing ♥
It's quite short and simple, but I think that's what makes it special.

Princess Warrior

Her hair blew in the wind,
So gracefully,
Like some heroine in a storybook.
She was a princess warrior,
Sweet yet strong,
Facing battles 1000 men couldn't handle,
Yet she did it all with a smile.
She felt happiness,
At moments like this,
Moments when it was just nature and her.

H.M.

♥

Tip of the day:

Do something you enjoy today. Whether it's something small or big. Something you do daily or haven't done in a while.

Take care x

Hana.

Welcome To My Blog ♥

Hiya you lovely earthling ♥
And welcome to my blog! My name is Hana and I hope to help our society one day.
I've made this blog as a hobby mainly, but also in order to hopefully create a cute little community. I really hope to be able to help others, whether that be through advice or by simply allowing people to enjoy my random little blog posts. I am in no way a professional at anything, however if you need any suggestions, advice or someone to talk to, I am willing to be there at all times ♥
I plan on making several changes in the next year and would like to document the process. So please do feel free to come along :) Some of these things include a YouTube channel and recovery from anorexia nervosa, depression and OCD (both of which I will expand upon in other blog posts).
'Til then,
TTFN :) x
P.S. If you read this, you've already earned a cyber-hug from me.
Hana ♥